Thursday, November 8, 2012

My Spouse Is Content With Our Marriage But I'm Not - What Can I Do?

I heard from a wife who said: "over the past three years, my marriage is deteriorated rapidly. When my husband and I were first married, we were crazy about one another. We were go on impromptu trips on a whim. We would try new restaurants on a weekly basis. But since our children were born, things have changed. I love our family. But the spark has gone and this makes me very unhappy. My husband seems content to just coexist. When I tell him that I'm not happy about how things have changed, he tells me that my expectations are unrealistic and that things will return to the way they are once our kids are older. He says he doesn't expect fireworks between us every night, but he loves me and that's enough for him. This is not what I want to hear. I want more out of my life than just having dinner after a 9 to 5 job. And I'm starting to think that I would be willing to leave my husband to get it. But I don't want to uproot my children and separate them from their father. What can I do? I'm just not happy."

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